For Sexual Problems.
Sexual problems are regularly and successfully treated at The Maldon Hypnotherapy Clinic Essex clinic with EMDR, Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy.
If you're unhappy or having problems with your sex life or lack of drive, find it difficult to enjoy yourself, are inhibited, nervous, just don't like it (and would like to!), or if you are confused about your sexuality hypnotherapy can help. Professional hypnotherapist Alice offers a confidential, entirely professional and sensitive approach to your unique problem.
Specific Related Sexual Issues:
- Anorgasmia/problems orgasming
- Premature ejaculation
- Low sex drive/Hypoactive sexual disorder
- Vaginismus/pain during intercourse (Dyspareunia)
- Erectile dysfunction/impotence
- Gender issues
- Feelings of guilt and shame
- Childhood sexual abuse
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"I first contacted Alice after a search on the Web for a Therapist to help me with a little problem I thought I had. After reading her web site and the testimonials, I plucked up the courage to telephone. I briefly explained that I was experiencing some “Man Problems” and arranged a consultation for the following day.
I have to say that it was with some trepidation that I knocked on the door of her consulting rooms, however, I need not to have worried, because Alice very quickly made me feel at ease and I found myself being able to talk to her in a way I hadn’t expected. I explained that I had been experiencing erectile dysfunction for some time and had reached a point where even 2 Viagra tablets had no effect whatsoever. As I have already stated, Alice made me feel completely at ease, and it was without any embarrassment that I was able to speak with her in a way I would not have been able to even with my GP.
The first consultation was free of charge and we arranged for a course of Therapy to commence the following day. It quickly became apparent that my dysfunction had nothing to do with sex, but everything to do with how I had come to see myself. One summed it up “Failure”, as a man, as a father, as everything! Alice explained that it was my negative thought processing that was the problem. She explained that throughout our lives we are taught many different things, but the one major thing we are not taught is how to process and control our thinking in a way to bring harmony and positivity to our lives and that it was only our thinking or beliefs that restricted us from achieving our true potential. Basically it is our own negative thought processing which holds us back.
The Therapy and wisdom I received from Alice has had an enormously positive effect upon my outlook on life. I no longer worry that I will not be able to perform in the bedroom, nor do I now shirk away from the challenges life throws our way, and the chains I had shackled myself with have now been completely broken. I am a very different and positive man to the sorry old fart who first knocked on her door. I really cannot thank Alice, or praise her enough, she helped me to discover the path to change my life.!" B from Burnham Essex January 2012
Premature ejaculation or problems with ejaculating is the most common sexual problem in men under forty. Premature ejaculation can lead to low confidence and self esteem, depression, anxiety and feelings of failure failure, guilt, worry etc . especially when with a new partner.
Many younger men go through a phase of premature ejaculation early in their sexual life, however its long term persistence or reoccurrence later in life leads to a very common but equally "embarrassing" problem. Premature ejaculation can be exacerbated by psychological factors e.g. stress, anxiety and emotional tensions. Part of the problem also is that it leads to "performance anxiety" which is itself a symptom of Social Phobia (the fear of being judged or put on the spot).
Hypnoanalysis successfully addresses Premature Ejaculation by dealing with the root source problem of deep seated psychological factors. Shortly after completing successfully completing Hypnoanalysis clients find their problem is resolved, for good.
Problems Orgasming - Anorgasmia, Orgasmic Dysfunction, Impotence:
Fear of sexual intercourse or any sexual interaction often leads to avoidance of any potential sexual contact or the situation where no pleasure is gained sex even if orgasm is reached. This can be very limiting in life and relationships and at the least very frustrating for the individual.
In women Anorgasmia describes the complete inability to orgasm (Primary Anorgasmia) or extreme difficulty in reaching orgasm as either Secondary Anorgasmia (women who've had orgasms in the past but are no longer able to) or most commonly Situational Anorgasmia and/or Orgasmic Dysfunction - a woman can only climax during a very specific sexual activity, orgasms when asleep, or can't climax with a partners, during intercourse, or when masturbating.
Anorgasmia in men is defined by the inability to ejaculate. Impotence in men is where a man finds it difficult to achieve or maintain an erection during sex (aka Male Erectile Disorder or Erectile dysfunction). This can lead to feeling of failure, frustration, inadequacy, rejection and feeling pressured/on the spot.
These conditions can be brought on or worsened by medical conditions and treatments e.g. Multiple Sclerosis (MS), diabetes, antidepressants, blood pressure medications, or Gynaecological surgery. However, there is more often than not a deep seated psychological element to the problem - stress, anxiety, depression, guilt feelings etc. which all strongly affect the body and mind balance.
Hypnoanalysis and Hypnotherapy can help and remove Anorgasmia, Orgasmic Dysfunction and Impotence by resolving those psychological factors.
Low Sex Drive/Hypoactive sexual desire disorder/Inhibitions/Nymphomania:
A broad range of symptoms stem from deep seated inhibitions and/or a lack of desire for sex. Low libido and the often accompanying avoidance of sexual intercourse can cause frustrations and be very detrimental to relationships.
Often the problems come from just one in a partnership. They may have a very low self image, have strongly associated feelings of guilt and shame around sex, or see it as dirty or wrong, or just be deathly embarrassed talking about sex or bodily functions at all.
Just as many problems can come from the other end of the spectrum where an individual has an excessive sex drive and appetite, compulsively repeatedly using sex as a way to calm themselves and feel "normal" - they may even describe themselves as "addicted to sex".
Hypnoanalysis and Hypnotherapy can help resolve the psychological factors behind these problems, often resulting in a very enjoyable andliberating change in one's feelings towards sex.
Difficulties having sex - Vaginismus/pain during intercourse (Dyspareunia):
Vaginismus is the involuntary contraction of the muscles around the vagina entrance. This makes penetration painful and sometimes impossible. Vaginismus may occur at any time in a woman's life and can affect not only sexual intercourse but also may extend to the use of tampons, having medical examinations etc. Often the stress of "trying" to have sex causes frustrations for the sufferer, subsequently puts pressure on any relationship, may lead to loss of libido, self esteem problems, fear of the pain of sex, depression and anxiety etc.
Vaginismus is not due to a physical abnormality of the vagina, or lack of lubrication (although this can lead to similar symptoms), or to that woman's vagina being smaller than normal - as it's only appearing smaller (or nonexistent) due to the strong spasm of the vaginal sphincter.
As this is predominantly apsychological problem that expresses itself physically Hypnoanalysis and Hypnotherapy can and frequently does help resolve Vaginismus for good.
Rape/Assualt/Childhood Sexual Abuse/feelings of guilt and shame:
Previous experiences of child abuse can affect adult relationships in many ways. Feelings of guilt, shame, insecurity, fear of sex, or the need for sex only with a certain type of partner can often result. Those problems and feelings need not haunt you for the rest of your life as Hypnoanalysis really can help to resolve these lasting issues once and for all. See EMDR
If you're troubled or confused about your sexuality, threatened by others sexuality, or on another hand preoccupied with specific sexual fantasies or fetishes and wish to feel happier about them and yourself then rest assured, these are all problems Alice deals with regularly and succesfully. If in doubt then call her for a chat to see if she can help.
Your next step...
If any of this sounds familiar and interesting and you'd like to free yourself from the limiting effects once and for all, be rest assured that Alice offers several solutions - both management of symptoms via overcoming trauma with EMDR, Suggestion Therapy or a long term deep down resolution of deep rooted problems via Pure Hypnoanalysis.
Of course, everybody is quite unique so each individual is treated on a personal basis after initial assessment. So in order to figure out which therapy option is best for you just call up for a chat and to arrange your free initial consultation at The Maldon Hypnotherapy Clinic, Essex where you can confidentially and thoroughly discuss sorting out your problem. There's no obligation to enter into any therapy and you will always learn something about yourself!
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Alice also successfully helps with other related problems including (but certainly not exclusively):